Marriage is an institution and in countries like India we are bound to get into this arrangement. It seems good and glorious to get married, however from the bride’s perspective there are always few marriage fears that still exist to any girl before getting married
Let’s have a detail look on marriage fears and understand in a better way. This can also be useful for girls who are prospective brides:
Will he be able to stand up to my expectations:
There are so many expectations every girl has in life based on her experience by seeing people around her or the stories she might have heard from people. They have expectations of how he must be, how he must take care of her and how the relation should be built etc. So, the relation looks rosy before marriage and even the guy also treats the girl very comfortably but post marriage is something which is very realistic and the approach then will define the terms between two people.
Will his family accept me and treat me better:
The major challenge in our society is not only the guy being friendly and accepting the girl but also his family too? Because most of the influential decisions in life are taking with the support of elders in family so this also makes her be extra conscious in life before getting married. However, the current trend of nuclear families has also put a full stop on these issues but few cases they are still same.
The approach towards her family:
Women are the best and most understand in both genes because they have two lives in one life and they get adapted to them so beautifully. But, the doubt, always remains in their minds is after marriage will the approach and attachment to her father, mother and siblings will be the same. Because there are situations in our society where the guys after marriage do not want their wives to be same as before with her family. However, in today’s busy world, neither the girls by themselves have time to be so approachable nor the guys are trying to be restrictive with this aspect anymore.
This is the most important and crucial element in any girl’s life before getting married. The life so far will be very casual with light elements, but now everything around starts becoming serious and responsible. Hence it generally creates a kind of fear as of how to plan, how to execute and how to make life peacefully for both.
This fear has become an add to the list very recently, reasons are quite contradicting. One set of women want to have kids as early as possible because of the health conditions and challenges physically existing in today’s world. Another set of the women want to enjoy their life to the best of their abilities before they plan for children because once the cycle of family completes then they will not have time for themselves.
By any means none of the above marriage fears are facts in everyone’s life and at the same time cannot be neglected also. So, it all depends on the bride how she plans and executes in matured way any relation.
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