Life is precious and should be lived happily and not with regrets.Every relation is based out of trust, understanding, and commitment. And you have full rights to remain committed to your commitment. It’s you who decide the boundaries of your relationship and the commitment you made to yourself, come what may but you should remain stick to your commitment. Say NO to what you are not comfortable in, you need not shy at least with a person you are dating. Let me share few tips with you that will help you to remain celibate while dating:
Listen to yourself :
After all, it’s a relation about you and your partner. You have full rights to decide what you want actually in or from your relationship. Do what you feel. Live the way you want to. It’s your life and you should be the one to decide what is more important to you. Do not forget why you are dating your partner. Is this relation is only for sexual pleasure? Listen to your inner self.
Speak Out :
Never hide your feeling from the one whom you are dating. He has all the rights to know what you’re actually feelings are. He has all the rights to know the reason behind your every yes or no. After all, he is your partner. Speak out to him if you want to remain celibate in your relation.
The only thing that can keep you strong is your commitment to yourself. Yes, you read it right. Commitment is the only thing that can and that will stop you to cross your boundaries. Share your commitment with the person you are dating. If he loves you and is actually serious about the relation, he or she will surely respect your commitment.
When you are dating someone, it is necessary to understand what the end goal of your relationship is. Are you actually dating for the sake of dating or you have an end goal of ending up marrying each other? If you have mutually decided with the common end goal then set your priorities and decide to have a sexual relationship before marriage is what makes you comfortable?
Give Time :
You are in a relationship with a person whom you are dating that doesn’t mean you can jump onto being intimate. Every relationship needs time. Even you need time to understand a person as well. So, it’s better to wait than to regret. Give yourself and your relation some time to understand each other well.
It is you and only you who has to decide what are you comfortable with, what are your priorities in a relationship and what makes you happy? Remember, never compromise on your commitments and never let your self-respect gets hampered by a person whom you are dating. Life is one, live it happily.
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