Marriage is an institution where two individuals come together with lots of expectations and hopes. Technology is taking up all the relations in life. Most of the times rather than merits we see demerits tagged with technological development in life. This can be primarily identified in relations between husbands and wife.
The social media is one of the greatest inventions of today’s world where we try to get whole world into one platform and make it look so easy. Social media has its own advantages and disadvantages in life. If we must look at flip side of social media in marriage relation:
The primary challenge with social media, anyone who is married will have additional responsibilities added to one’s life. Now, most of the people are so attached to social media that they spend hours and days together on that without even having minimum attention to responsibilities. The reason for everything might not be social media but majorly it is effecting today’s relations.
The person who tries to isolate himself and be more on social network will start losing interest in everything in life. Social media causing heavy emotional disorder and dis-functioning. The relation between two people grows and enhance with communication. If the person does not have any interest in talking and socializing how this can cherish. Behavioural aspects like jealousy, suspicious behaviour will always lead to the destruction of life and values. Most of the crimes that are happening and issues that married couple are facing like divorce, quarrels and assaulting somewhere or other have direct or indirect effect of social media too.
Marriage is also having physical aspect involved in this. But the interest in various other activities that are at times very addictive social media causing will make the urge levels come down. It’s been studied and explained by doctors also that if people get so much attached to social media then there is a change that the sexual ideas and actions will have a downtrend in its life. This also leads to huge dissatisfaction and at times will go to different level. Maybe this also can be considered as reason for increase in extra-marital affairs.
Not that everything is bad about social media but should understand that anything if in control will make anyone’s life happy and glad. Once we start misusing or abusing then the results will become adverse which will lead to major disasters in life. Marriage life has its own happiness, responsibilities, commitments and delightful moments in life. Which can be enjoyed at that moment and retain them as sweet memories for whole life. Making this no happening because of external factors like social media is not advised.
Social media will give a platform to explore what we like and would want to know more about. This is the real channel where we express our views and thoughts to near and dear ones. So, use it but do not depend on it.
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