Now when the daughter is getting married, it’s the most difficult time for the father. He should be strong even when he is feeling emotional from inside. On the one hand, he has to give life lessons to his daughter and on the other hand, keep himself strong and hiding his emotions. Here comes the duty of the son-in-law to assure his would be father-in-law that he is giving his daughter in the right hands and she will be taken care for the lifetime.
The daughter’s father, no matter how much strong he is, but somewhere is scared that how will his daughter be treated and will she be happy? At this place, the son-in-law should play a very vital role and make his would-be wife’s father trust him. To ease your life as a son-in-law, keep these points into consideration with a view to build a strong and healthy relationwith the father-in-law.
Get to know each other
– This can be possible if your in-laws house is in the same city. Take out some quality time to spend with your father-in-law. May be playing golf together or a round of chess can be of real help. But if your in-laws stay at a distance, you can probably plan to visit them pre-wedding to have a good time. The more you get to know each other, less will be the pressure on your D-day.
Commit only what you can perform
– Never say those words which you cannot fulfil. Stepping into a new life can make you high on commitments. But mind it! These commitments can put you in a big trouble later. So, never commit what you cannot perform. Stay calm. Stay true. Because being a daughter’s father, it is not easy for him to give his daughter and trust him.
Speak out to your fiancé
– Your fiancé is the one who knows the in and out of her family members. She knows her father more than anyone else knows him. So, if you are facing some issues in building relations with your father-in-law, speak out to your fiancé. Ask her what are his likes and dislikes? What interests him more? This will help you know your father-in-law better.
Know their views about you
– Any relation is a two-way traffic. Both the sides should know about each other. As it is important for you to know them, it is equally important to know what your father-in-law thinks about you. What are their views? Once you are aware of their point of view for you, it will be easier for you to build a relation with him.
Marriage is not just a relation between two people. It is a relation between two families. Families whose culture, values, thought process is different. If you both love each other but there is a disliking in anyone of the two for the family member, the solid marriage cannot be performed. Never burden yourself with the baggage of relations but ignoring and tolerating few things for the sale of your love is no big thing.
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