Marriage and friendship are two different aspects of life. They both are equally important for any individual. There will be an effect of friendship on relation and vice versa. It’s all in our hands to balance it and take it further. Wife/husband always want to be on priority of their partner. Life might be different before marriage that we may be giving so much importance to friends. After marriage, there must be changes that are required to happen and are inevitable too.
Majorly it is observed that effect of friendship is always negative in marriage life so the balance and managing the relations will make an individual successful in life. The issues that might arise because of friendship in married life are as below:
Majorly this one creates so many disturbances in married life where the partner wants to spend quality time with husband/wife post marriage. But very few people don’t adapt to changes so easily and they will be in same old lifestyle. Then the clash between the partners starts pooling up. Its one’s responsibility to understand the value of partner, give them time and spend valuable moments along with them.
This is generally happening with guys because they have so much of money dealings with close friends and this may lead to huge disasters in family life. Women are very possessive about their family and money, unlike men. Guys are very lenient in handling these issues and most of the times don’t bother at all. It’s very important to be responsible after marriage and handle financial issues very sensibly.
Opposite Gender Friends:
This is one more area of concern in friendship. In today’s world, it is very common to have opposite gender friends in group. They tend to be very close, share everything and lead a care-free life. But after marriage, it’s a little challenging to be same as before. Be careful in handling opposite gender relations in life after marriage. Maybe the intentions are right but women do not take it normally. Best to avoid as much as possible or if required to keep them at a safe distance so that it will not affect your married life.
Levels For Each Relation:
Any relation is not greater than marriage, so rest all relations can be maintained at a distance or if required can be ignored also. So, priorities might change before marriage based on requirement and situation. However, after marriage, it does not have any change. Priority will always be the partner and rest all can always wait. So, take this in mind very seriously to avoid challenges in personal life because of friends.
Not that all friends and friendships will lead to complication, but in most of the cases, they do. So, it is not advised to remove all friends from list and lead a life being a dedicated husband/wife. Handle relations and manage them effectively without any hassles in life.
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