Most of the times this question arises in every individual let it be a guy/girl that if I am ready for marriage. There are so many factors to be considered to answer this question and every individual may or may not have same parameters to judge. Leaving aside the biological factors, there are so many others also which directly or indirectly influence us to decide whether ready for marriage or not. Let us see a few of them out of the experience.
The primary and very important aspect to decide whether I am ready or not being based on your economic condition. However, this does not mean that only after earning so much or after reaching certain stage in life must get married. This point validates the individual’s capability to handle family life and the challenges or unexpected situations meeting strength.
Life always does not take the way anyone wants it to. The surprises or challenges we face cannot be upfront intimated, most of the times. So, keeping ourselves ready for everything is maturity and this is the most important aspect of any married life.
Apart from very few exceptional cases, most of the times for any relation to growth, we must have strong interpersonal skills on personal front. The challenge most of the times observed is for guys as they do not have strong interpersonal skills in personal life with relatives, well-wishers etc. Till marriage, it’s ok to be as you wish but post-marriage life is dictated by many terms so must follow them to lead a successful married life.
Most important factor for any relation to blossom is having patience. Majorly point is focused for guys as they do not have patience to wait, to speak and to understand most of the times. It is very hard to acquire these qualities, but once start getting used to it by slowly practicing the transformation of life is phenomenal with so many pleasant times around. The empathizing is because the partner complimenting and being supportive, always make the married relation strong and meaningful.
Honesty is the foundation for any relation. Especially in marriage, this plays a vital role. The trust on the partner is exhibited with the level of honesty we have. Many relationships get ruined when the partners are not honest with each other and create so many differences. Decisions are to be taken with each other’s consent and it will very important to be open for discussions in critical matters of life. There can be few decisions which might give adverse effects, but still when the decision is based on consent of partners then the impact might be less to digest.
Marriage is a responsible decision in life and must be taken only by the individual so do not allow anyone else influences your decision of getting married. Ultimately you are the one who should live life with the person you chose to and the one who should accept the life as it is without any hesitation.
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