Life takes a different turn after marriage. Two people from two different backgrounds (Most of the times) with two different mind-sets will become one. It will have its share of merits and demerits too. However, when it comes to taking the plunge in every aspect of life couples are always having their set of fears in life. So, let us try to understand in general what all the fears that generally any couple comes across while taking a plunge.
Fear of failure:
Everyone while doing something carry this in their head. So, this is a very common syndrome in humans. After being a couple, this becomes more because he/she is not one person anymore, there is one more dependent on them. Hence the fear grows up. It’s good to be afraid, but without risking anything in life it is not easy to grow. So, keep moving ahead.
The decisions while over stressed or tensed will 99% go wrong, so it is good to take any decision with cool and composed mind. So, the plunging will always lead to wrong decision making and again effecting two lives. To overcome this, it is always not to risk in making decisions alone.
Failure is not death:
Anyone in this world can and shall fail at some point in time. This is not a death so overcome the situation that is leading you into emotional disaster because of failure. Have hope towards life and situation, miracles do happen for people who are confident that they can do miracles.
Mainly the fear develops because they do not get any support when it is needed. The problem with any individual is they can take decisions for anyone effectively and constructively, but when it comes to them always they are utter failure. So, in case of fear situations it is always suggested to pick up supporting hand from others and try understanding it from their prospective to get rid of situation.
No problem or fear develops instantly there will be so many reasons. So, understanding it constructively as a couple will make them have a good hold on the situation and fear too. Make it realistic and approach accordingly. This will make us be successful in everything and anything in life.
Any habit together:
Be together and take any habit or activity which will give confidence in being together and there is a lot of fun included in this. Having a life of our choice with our partner is always a beautiful act of life. So, make use of it to the best and fears come and go as part of life.
Plunging is not tough or complicated but the fear associated with it will make us not to initiate it. But, overcoming this will make life more meaningful and delightful. Life in today’s world is changing at very faster pace so coping up with change will make us fearless.
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