This sounds very odd and at times pointless to start a conversation in a marriage event. Now, ultimately someone must break the ice to take discussions further so we are giving a few tips on how to start a conversation in marriage events. Most of the times we will have one senior expert person, who will generally initiate talks for marriage. So, it will be always their responsibility to always keep up the light and kick-start the discussion.
However, we are here giving 5 ways as to initiate the conversation in marriages:
Common factors: Generally, any conversation should start with the common things between two people may be interests, profession or relations. Something will be for sure common hence primarily focus on those things first to grab attention and to make the situation lighter. After then we can take it up to the next level automatically.
Composed and light discussions: It is always suitable to have composed and light discussions at the beginning rather than making everyone inconvenient by directly getting into the topic. Can start with something about today’s any news or any comic scenario and slowly get onto the actual topic is always advisable. Never making any discussion as an argument. It is agreed that there can be a difference of opinion, but please remember the primary purpose of this discussion is not winning the argument.
Compliments: These are very magical and work in a better way. Compliment on the best qualities that you have observed and explain the value of those qualities and how important and lively to have those qualities. So, the situation also becomes very practical then the conversation can be taken up to the next level. Do not even speak something accidentally or unintentionally also which you think might hurt their emotions.
Make an open-ended conversation: Make sure all discussions are started with a very casual behaviour and do not sound so harsh and aggressive in asking questions because this may make another person very inconvenient and will lose interest in the conversation itself. So, be careful about what you ask and do not corner them with any questions.
Open-ended question about general topics: Do not try to influence your opinions on the other person. Mostly he/she may like what you say and at times may not also so do not try to convince them that what you said is perfect and everybody must accept with it. Make any questions sound very general and even the other person also should get that feel to reply. So the more we try to generalize discussions the more we get benefited out of it.
It is not an easy task to initiate any discussion in very critical and sensitive situations like marriage, but at the same time, it is also not an impossible task. A little logic and sense of humour on what to speak, how to speak and when to speak will make us win over hearts and not people which is important in making a relationship.
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