Every parent wants their children to lead life happily and peacefully. The institution of marriage brings two souls together. It is said that marriages are made in heaven, however after marriage to make life heaven or hell is in our hands. So, every parent wants to give their son/daughter the best they can afford and can go to any length to get this happen.
As per the understanding in today’s fast cultured world it is not easy to find a match which is compatible, hence there are few ways through which we can try to get the right match for son/daughter:
Online portals: This is one of the best platforms this generation has. It can bring 1000’s of prospective bride and grooms together. Globalization has made the world so small that we can connect to anywhere in this world at a button press distance. So, this option is also quite successful and gives a very good result oriented operation. We hear many success stories in our day to day life. We come to know of couples who met through online portals and tied knots and enjoying a happy life.
Relatives, Near & Dear: This is one the traditional and old way of getting matches for children and still in practice in countries like India. This has some suitable results and the best part of this matchmaking is in case if any, concerns raise in life all the people who were involved in getting this match set will be there to help in sorting out discrepancies.
Matchmakers: One more business which in existence from a few decades, however, the technology has given a new shape and look for this currently. Modernization has also impacted matchmakers too. These people generally do handle alliances within the region or location but few of them who have extreme contacts and base in market will go to the next level where they also deal with cross-border match fixing also.
Love let that happen: In today’s world, this is no more a taboo and almost all families have accepted this as a change that has come in this generation. Let your girl/boy decide who the right match for them is and come to you. The advantages of this are the same concern we have for them to lead happy and peaceful life is getting fulfilled because it’s their own choice and knows in and out of each other very much. Again, looking at flip side at any point of time conflicts can arise because of which the relations can also break very easily.
Looking someone in the family: This is no more considered as a healthy practice but still existing in India, where relations get fixed between immediate family members of paternal or maternal side of the boy or girl. All families want is to have a prosperous life for their children, hence any practice has their own merits and demerits. So be cautions in picking someone for your child as a lifetime partner.
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